When you run into obstacles and failures, how do you respond to it? Does your response help propel you for success or does stagnate your growth to the point of quitting? The way you think will determine whether you become success or not. Let’s see how successful people think…
Are you more focused on what you do want more so than what you don’t want? Many of us are focused on many wants, but don’t have the belief that it will ever happen. As a matter of fact we put our attention of what will go wrong.
If this is your mentality, then success is just a fairy tale to you.
But, if you have just an inch of belief and protect that belief that you can become successful, it will blossom and take you above and beyond. Where there’s belief comes faith. You’ll have the faith to go through the process which will eventually lead you to success.
Just the little believe you have is the beginning of the stable foundation that you will lay out for your entrepreneurial career. If you have a job you nurture you mind, you’ll definitely go through a paradigm shift from one extreme to another. This mindset will eventually change everything outside along with it.
So How Do Successful Bound People Think?
This is the kicker. As Entrepreneurs you will start to think totally different from the majority of people. And sorry to say, but this one of the worst fears that you’re peers will witness. Why? Because they’ll see that you’re going to actually achieve what they thought was impossible for you to achieve. So what is the mentality you’ll have? Let’s see.
Every Failure Is A Lesson
Question: How many of you can learn a dance step the first time seeing it?
I’m thinking not too many of you. No disrespect. If you can, I give you much props. But the majority of us have to go through the dance steps over and over and over again to really get it right. It doesn’t matter if you “believe” that you have two left feet, if you’re heart and soul is into it, you’ll learn it.
Same goes with business. The mentality of a person that success bound understands that there are going to be mistakes and errors. As a matter of fact, most look forward to it.
Because the process of learning how to correct those mistakes is not only a challenge but it’s fun. This is true education! Going through the experience, getting a couple of bruises, and then coming out on top. The journey to the destination is the best part and something you can put in your scrapbook.
Success Is Your Responsibility
Have you ever heard the saying “You’re quick to point the finger, but yet you have 3 fingers pointing back at you.” If you can’t find a job you blame the president and the recession, if you’re struggling in network marketing you blame your upline and leaders, if you’re having a bad day you blame it on the rain.
The more you play the blame game, the more you take away from your potential. So why would you want to drain it? Know that you have the ability to become successful and that it’s nobody’s, things, or circumstances that can keep you from it.
If you quit, make it a break. It’s just a temporary decision for you to come back even stronger and take more responsibility.
Obstacles Is The Resistance To Make You Stronger
Obstacles are just like spider webs. You walk into them, you may snap and look crazy trying to get them off, but you keep on walking.
Have you noticed that many entrepreneurs failed their way to the top? Look at Abraham Lincoln. He’s a prime example. All of those failures and obstacles he had previously before he became the President helped him to become one of the best presidents in U.S. History.
The thing about obstacles is that it’s going to help you become the person to fill in the chair of success. So when those obstacles hit you and knock you down, know that it’s temporary and it can’t keep knocking you down. Let it build your emotional immune system and become so resilient that it can’t fade you anymore.
Focused Passion Disregards Rejection
Have you ever became so focused on something that nothing else mattered? You can be in a burning building, but yet you’re so in rhythm with an activity, you just don’t take notice.
Remember the first time you fell in love. Your focused was just on that person. You can be in class, daydreaming about the person, going unnoticed of the teacher asking you to answer a question. You just disregard everything else but that one true love.
Can you be like this with your home business? You sure can. If you’re really that focused, anybody’s rejection wouldn’t matter because you’re so focused on your business and the process of building it.
An Open Mind See’s And Accepts Opportunities
This reminds me of the secret and the law of attraction. I look at it as the law of noticing things. A successful entrepreneur can see and accept good opportunities that’s going to help propel them.
Without this mentality, you’l probably see opportunities as ridiculous and may ridicule them. This is the reason for the stagnation of many of our peers. More people reject opportunities as a waste of time more so than seeing them as a leverage tool to gain more time for themselves as the wealthy do
Keep this in mind…
Successful Mentality: Where there are problems there are opportunities
Unsuccessful Mentality: Where there are problems there are more personal issues
Opinions Are Not Facts
Just because your peers say it doesn’t mean it’s a fact. Entrepreneurs can distinguish between facts and opinions quite well.
Think of the 1936 Olympics with Hitler and the Nazis. They thought Blacks were inferior and can never beat anyone in the 100 meter dash of the Aryan Race. That was until Jesse Owen proved them wrong.
We hear that you have to be one of the first ones to join an MLM company in order to become successful, or the only people that make money are those at the top. Now is this opinion or fact? I’ll let you bee the judge.
Question and Listen To Solve Problems
Entrepreneurs are problem solvers and great listeners. They question, listen intently, and find a solution. If you’re not successful in anything, you have to figure out a way to solve more problems. Once you do this, You’ll attract more success!
Now It’s Your Turn!
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