Have you ever wondered why some of the people you know are so negative and what to do about it? Do you get to the point where you join their negative party of start to focus on negative things? Let’s take a look on the why and what you can do to reverse it…
“There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.” ~ W. Clement Stone
Being able to focus on the things you want will attract it. This is all part of the law of attraction which says that your thoughts become things.
Whatever you really focus on can become your reality.
A lot of you believe that you can not control what comes to your life, which to an extent is true. But how you react to it makes a big difference.
This reaction determines which path you’ll take whether it’s positive or negative.
If you set some goals, build momentum, and start a step by step process in order to accomplish them, you’re more likely to be happier than the person that doesn’t.
When it comes to negative people their focus is on lack and fear.
In order to “build their ego” they put others down or focus on what’s wrong with the world.
They like to put emphasis on the fallacies and short-comings of others.
If y ou have a network marketing home business, you most likely were shown disapproval from these negative people. They want to point out how it’s a pyramid or that you don’t have what it takes to make it in the network marketing industry, let alone any type of business.
But if you’re really serious and really believe that you can achieve your goals, those negative comments will bounce off of you because of your strong focus.
Now what if they had a goal they can focus on?
The Infamous Albert Einstein said, “if you want to be happy, tie it to a goal not on people and things.”
If you have noticed amongst those that are happy, not only they’re always see the bright sight of things and opportunities in every corner, but they also are very busy and focused with something they love doing.
Happy people always have goals they want to accomplish, and they’re busy with the process of obtaining that goal. They don’t really take notice of what goes on around them. When they start a project, they really start a project! They become oblivious to what’s going on around them because what they do is very important to them. Check out my last post entitled How Does Building Momentum And Focusing On The Process Benefit You
Negative people on the other hand are too busy criticizing others. They can become arrogant which limits their thinking. They usually have no goals to focus on. The first mistake that you make they’re quick to point it out.
The fact that they’re not taking any effort to move forward with their lives, they need an outlet to criticize so that others that they know stay on the same level as they are. Once they see someone trying to better themselves, they start to shoot sarcasm and ridicule.
They always worried about what the other person is doing instead of focusing on themselves. This definitely can put a toll on anyone’s happiness.
If You’re Negative, Then Reverse It
If you’re negative and want to change, then you must change the way your habits. It’s all in the way you think and the actions that you take.
Whatever is influencing you to being negative, then you must cut it out of your life. Whether it’s TV, Music, News Paper, Books and even friends. You must find those things and people that’s going to add value to you.
Negative people are so focus on getting the results that they want to skip the process of getting it. If you’re negative, and want good results then focusing on the process and pinpointing your plan for the next week, month, year, or next couple of years will definitely start to change your attitude.
You’ll start to feel like you’re living a more fulfilling life. Once you feel that, the happier you’ll become, and more of what you want will come into your life!!!
Now It’s Your Turn!
What do you do to stay positive? How do you handle negative people? Are you negative and want to make a change? Please share and comment below. I look forward to reading them!!!
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